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The Club Isn't the Enemy
Jesus walked into rooms that made religious people deeply uncomfortable. He didn't pretend the settings were harmless. He didn't endorse everything happening inside. He just never let the room become more important than the person in front of him.
Jun 9


Peace When the Night is Too Still
When you and other parents of strippers are awake at 3 am, the best theological truth you can lean on is simply this: God does not sleep. The Creator of the universe is just as present in a loud, crowded strip club as He is in the quietest church sanctuary. There is nowhere your daughter can go where the presence of God cannot reach her. You do not have to be her savior. You do not have to be her protector every second of the day. You were never meant to carry the weight of h
May 20


Understanding the Hustle Mindset
by Jaz James Hey Friend, There’s no tidy schedule printed on a fridge, no supervisor reminding her when it’s time to take a break. She doesn’t even have to clock in. Her work begins when the sun goes down and the world shifts into something louder, dimmer, and harder to read. You may picture this as chaos. But she experiences control. For Example... One dancer described it this way, “I don’t just walk in and start working. I study the room first. Who’s spending? Who’s just wa
Apr 1


Loving Your Child Doesn't Mean Approving Her Choices
Years from now, if your child's life looks completely different, what will have mattered most? It won't be the lecture you gave or the tough love you showed. It will be the fact that you never left.
Jan 5


Setting Healthy Boundaries While Staying Engaged in Your Child’s Life
by Jaz James Hey Love, Parenting is a delicate balance, and when your child’s life choices differ from your own values or expectations,...
Aug 24, 2025


How to Be the Light of Christ in Your Child’s Life
by Jaz James Hey Love, Being a parent comes with challenges, and when your child’s choices take them in directions you never anticipated,...
Jun 2, 2025


Finding Community and Support as the Parent of a Stripper
by Jaz James Hey Love, Parenting often comes with unexpected challenges, and discovering your child is a stripper can bring a unique mix...
May 5, 2025


Navigating Feelings of Guilt and Shame as a Parent
by Jaz James Hey Love, Being a parent can be one of life’s most rewarding roles, but it can also be one of the most challenging. When...
Apr 1, 2025


Praying for Your Child : Specific Prayers for Strength and Protection
by Jaz James Hey Love, As parents, watching your adult child choose a path you might not fully understand can stir up a mix of emotions....
Mar 3, 2025


When the Path is Unclear : Trusting God with Your Child’s Journey
by Jaz James Hey Love, Parenting is a journey filled with hope, love, and, sometimes, heartache. We pour our hearts into our children,...
Feb 3, 2025


From Judgment to Joy: Supporting Your Stripper Child with Grace
by Jaz James Hey Love, As a parent, it can be incredibly difficult when your child’s career choices don’t align with the dreams or values...
Dec 2, 2024

