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Expanding Your Boundaries
The lights, the music, the money; it’s easy to let the club become everything. You show up to work and suddenly hours blur together. Before you know it, your entire identity revolves around stage names, set lists, and who's working which nights. The club becomes not just where you make money, but who you are.
Jan 19


Loving Your Child Doesn't Mean Approving Her Choices
Years from now, if your child's life looks completely different, what will have mattered most? It won't be the lecture you gave or the tough love you showed. It will be the fact that you never left.
Jan 5


You Are Qualified
If you actually read the stories about Jesus, not the sanitized Sunday school versions but the real stories, you’ll notice something: He spent most of His time with people the religious people hated.
Dec 15, 2025


Jesus Wept
by Jaz James Hey Friend, When Jesus stood outside Lazarus's tomb and wept, the people around Him were confused. Some thought He was crying because He'd arrived too late. Others wondered why He hadn't prevented the death in the first place. But John tells us something remarkable: Jesus wept even though He had already told the disciples, "This sickness will not end in death" (John 11:4) . He knew exactly what was about to happen. He had the power, the plan, and the promise alre
Dec 1, 2025


Loving My Daughter Through It All: A Mother’s Story
by Carolyn (names have been changed at the request of the family) Hey Friend, my name is Carolyn and I’m a mother learning what it means...
Sep 1, 2025


Setting Healthy Boundaries While Staying Engaged in Your Child’s Life
by Jaz James Hey Love, Parenting is a delicate balance, and when your child’s life choices differ from your own values or expectations,...
Aug 24, 2025


What It Means to Be a New Creation in Christ
by Jaz James Hey Love, For many, the idea of being a "new creation in Christ" feels like a distant or impossible dream—especially if your...
Aug 18, 2025


How to Create a Self-Care Routine for Your Days Off
by Jaz James Hey Love, As an entertainer, your work can be physically demanding, emotionally draining, and mentally exhausting. That’s...
Jul 14, 2025


Understanding Your Child’s Perspective: Seeing Beyond the Job
by Jaz James Hey Love, Discovering that your child is working as a stripper can bring a whirlwind of emotions—confusion, fear, sadness,...
Jul 1, 2025


Let Go of the Baggage: Finding Forgiveness and Freedom
by Jaz James Hey Love, This post may not resonate with everyone, but it’s for those who find themselves wrestling with shame or guilt...
Jun 16, 2025


How to Be the Light of Christ in Your Child’s Life
by Jaz James Hey Love, Being a parent comes with challenges, and when your child’s choices take them in directions you never anticipated,...
Jun 1, 2025


The Importance of Sleep : How to Get Your Best Sleep When Working Late Nights
by Jaz James Hey Love, Working late nights as a stripper can take a toll on your body and mind, making quality sleep an essential part of...
May 18, 2025


Finding Community and Support as the Parent of a Stripper
by Jaz James Hey Love, Parenting often comes with unexpected challenges, and discovering your child is a stripper can bring a unique mix...
May 4, 2025


God Listens to Everyone — Even Strippers
by Jaz James Hey Love, Life can be chaotic, and between long shifts, personal commitments, and everything else on your plate, finding...
Apr 13, 2025


Navigating Feelings of Guilt and Shame as a Parent
by Jaz James Hey Love, Being a parent can be one of life’s most rewarding roles, but it can also be one of the most challenging. When...
Mar 31, 2025


Body Positivity in the Club : Embracing Yourself as You Are
by Jaz James Hey Love, Let’s be real: Your worth isn’t tied to anyone else’s opinion about your body. In an industry where looks are...
Mar 16, 2025


Praying for Your Child : Specific Prayers for Strength and Protection
by Jaz James Hey Love, As parents, watching your adult child choose a path you might not fully understand can stir up a mix of emotions....
Mar 3, 2025


Unstoppable Love : Why God’s Grace Has Your Back — No Matter What
by Jaz James Hey Love, Let’s be real for a second—life can feel like a stage, and not just the one you’re dancing on. People are quick to...
Feb 17, 2025


When the Path is Unclear : Trusting God with Your Child’s Journey
by Jaz James Hey Love, Parenting is a journey filled with hope, love, and, sometimes, heartache. We pour our hearts into our children,...
Feb 3, 2025


New Year, New Energy : How to Set Realistic Goals
by Jaz James Hey Love, The New Year is here, bringing fresh opportunities and the hope of starting anew. Whether you’re focused on...
Jan 17, 2025

